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The Power of an Impact Letter: Giving Voice to Pain, Making Room for Repair
Nichole King 10/14/25 Nichole King 10/14/25

The Power of an Impact Letter: Giving Voice to Pain, Making Room for Repair

When shared in the right context, an impact letter becomes a moment of sacred truth-telling—one that can lay the foundation for healing, clarity, and even repair.

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Watching the Game Tape: How to Analyze a Relapse Without Shame
Nichole King 10/7/25 Nichole King 10/7/25

Watching the Game Tape: How to Analyze a Relapse Without Shame

A relapse is not the end. It’s a call to review the tape, adjust the strategy, and step back onto the field with clarity and compassion.

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Relapse Safety Plans: Protecting Both Partners on the Path to Recovery
Nichole King 9/30/25 Nichole King 9/30/25

Relapse Safety Plans: Protecting Both Partners on the Path to Recovery

This is not a prediction of failure—it’s a wise form of preparedness.

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What Is Gaslighting—and Why It’s More Than Miscommunication
Nichole King 9/23/25 Nichole King 9/23/25

What Is Gaslighting—and Why It’s More Than Miscommunication

Gaslighting is more than emotional pain—it is relational betrayal of reality.

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What Is a Therapeutic Disclosure? And Why It Matters for Both Partners After Betrayal
Nichole King 9/16/25 Nichole King 9/16/25

What Is a Therapeutic Disclosure? And Why It Matters for Both Partners After Betrayal

How the truth is told matters just as much as the truth itself.

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Protected Yet Connected: The Balance Your Heart Was Made For
Nichole King 9/9/25 Nichole King 9/9/25

Protected Yet Connected: The Balance Your Heart Was Made For

“We help clients not by insisting they give up protection or pursue connection at any cost, but by helping them experience both—together.” — Dr. Janina Fisher

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How to Increase Emotional Awareness: Tools to Help You Feel What You Feel
Nichole King 9/2/25 Nichole King 9/2/25

How to Increase Emotional Awareness: Tools to Help You Feel What You Feel

It’s about moving from automatic reactions to intentional responses.

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Knowing What’s Yours to Carry: What Is My Job, Your Job, and God’s Job?
Nichole King 8/26/25 Nichole King 8/26/25

Knowing What’s Yours to Carry: What Is My Job, Your Job, and God’s Job?

When life feels overwhelming, relationships feel strained, or control feels just out of reach, it’s often because we’re carrying burdens that aren’t actually ours to hold.

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Horizontal vs. Vertical Relationships: Are You Partnering or Parenting in Your Marriage?
Nichole King 8/19/25 Nichole King 8/19/25

Horizontal vs. Vertical Relationships: Are You Partnering or Parenting in Your Marriage?

Each person is free to be fully themselves—and fully responsible.

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Boundaries Are Doors, Not Walls: How to Set Limits Without Shutting People Out
Nichole King 8/12/25 Nichole King 8/12/25

Boundaries Are Doors, Not Walls: How to Set Limits Without Shutting People Out

Boundaries are not about keeping people out; they are about showing people the respectful way in.

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Processing Difficult Emotions: A Path to Inner Stability
Nichole King 8/5/25 Nichole King 8/5/25

Processing Difficult Emotions: A Path to Inner Stability

The truth is, difficult emotions are not our enemies. They are messengers.

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The Secret Sexual Basement: Why Betrayal Trauma Is Deeper Than You Think
Nichole King 7/22/25 Nichole King 7/22/25

The Secret Sexual Basement: Why Betrayal Trauma Is Deeper Than You Think

There’s a specific kind of pain that comes when someone you love hides a part of themselves so completely that you didn’t even know it existed.

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Addiction Isn’t the Problem—It’s the Attempted Solution
Nichole King 7/1/25 Nichole King 7/1/25

Addiction Isn’t the Problem—It’s the Attempted Solution

Rather than asking, “Why the addiction?” the more useful question is, “Why the pain?”

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Why Betrayal Trauma Feels So Different—and What the Research Says About Healing
Nichole King 6/30/25 Nichole King 6/30/25

Why Betrayal Trauma Feels So Different—and What the Research Says About Healing

Betrayal trauma is not just another form of trauma. It’s unique. It’s personal. And it requires a different kind of healing.

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